“An aunt at the MFC made me mad today”, “some aunt started making a fuss at the checkout in the store”, “dressed like an aunt, of course”… When we hear something similar, we immediately imagine a middle-aged woman with an eternally dissatisfied face . It seems that she hates the whole world – also because her own life did not turn out the way she wanted. How not to miss the moment and not become the same? The psychologist listed four phrases that are characteristic of a real “aunt”.